Saturday, 18 March 2023

tell you about myself

I say I am a writer

a runner

a lover

yet I haven't wrote to you in months

from my feelings towards you I run

and I hate the sun


I say I'm a morning person yet i hate the sun

what is this mess

this muss

this fuss 

what happened to my mind I can't confess

can I give you my address?


people look different at home

offguard, sensual and calm

wrapped up in foam and in their own minds they roam

figuring out their lives in the measure of their palm


can you understand me a little?

can you hear me a little?

I am all alone in my own metaverse I roam 

I can you show all my love in the measure of my palm 



Friday, 29 July 2022

for now let's call it passion

feeling everything in an instant

for now let's call it passion 


feeling passionate about passion, fashion, Cleopatra, and your six inch palms

catch ya 

yet sometimes it feels like there's some kind of war in your mind

but why? when you say it is passion...

perhaps when one feels everything, it is because they are so close to feeling nothing

everything in nothingness, do you scout the paradox? 


let me tell you something,

feel the passion baby, touched by me 

i am an overflow of emotions and a full range of motion

can we make love before the passion goes 

i'd rather hold your hand and rub your shoulders in front of a mirror

feel the motion, the graceful sensation 

i am a lover, can I love you before you go?


i am a lover, can i play your favorite song on the radio?

can we slow dance to Frank Ocean on the patio?

what a dream come true! 

let me hold you, let me show you the world in a handful of emotions

for now let's take in the passion 

Wednesday, 23 March 2022

An Insight into Adichie’s “We Should All be Feminists”


           “My own definition of a feminist is a man or a woman who says, ‘yes, there’s a problem with gender as it is today, and we must fix it, we must do better. All of us, women and men, must do better.’” (17) Thus concludes the author, Chimamanda Adichie, her essay We Should All be Feminists. Torn between two cultures—Nigeria and the US, the author finds herself often being called “westernized” or “whitewashed” for being a feminist, that is due to the false conviction that feminism is un-African. Therefore, she includes in the book-sized essay some personal anecdotes and statements (which will be addressed in the next couple of paragraphs) that are meant to reshape the definition and the convictions of 21st-century feminism. And she serves, hopefully, to feed people the fact that feminism is for everybody, men or women, young or grownup, white or African…

            Adichie, through the people she meets and whom she writes about in the essay, and through her own experiences, forms her own definition of feminism. Her definition is a result of countless encounters with inequality. For instance, she narrates that once, she was at a restaurant in Nigeria with a male friend of hers. The waiter at the restaurant greeted the man and completely disregarded her presence. Adichie here does not antagonize the waiter, instead, she blames society for constructing such behavior in which a man is seen to be worth recognition in public, while a woman is not. “The waiters are products of a society that has taught them that men are more important than women…” (15) This one (out of many) social stereotypes is, evidently, part of the ‘problem with gender’ that she states in her conclusion.

            Another issue that Adichie addresses is the traditional outdated conviction that male is physically stronger than female and hence deserves to be doing the more important and somewhat higher jobs. She affirms that yes, that is what was true in the past because jobs then required physical effort. But today, she says, most job’s main attribute is rather the intellectual, something which both men and women can equally obtain. “…Human beings lived then in a world in which physical strength was the most important attribute for survival […] Today, we live in a vastly different world. The person more qualified to lead is not the physically stronger person. It is more the intelligent.” (15) Looking back again at her conclusive statement, it is inferred that Adichie believes that perhaps we will only collectively do better once we break out from our outdated beliefs (man is stronger—man deserves better jobs, and as such) that limit women’s abilities.

            Adichie herself embodies an accurate definition of a Feminist. Her fair, logical statements, and her inclusion of men, rather that hating on them, teach the readers what it really means to be a feminist. As subjective as her judgments may seem, it must be universally acknowledged that indeed, like she says, for us to do better we shall demolish whatever gender stereotypes there are, and reform the chances that women get. Only then will we live in a balanced and equal world. 

Monday, 28 February 2022

fragile futile

 did you know what is fragile

the mountains echo and the hills on fire

heart burns at matters futile 

and useless

why am i sad


don't make me sad and don't make me cry

i like art because you do

i like music because of you

and everything i do


can you notice me now

and the heart that screams your name how

to my heart and all art

this is all a bad dream

Monday, 21 February 2022

Romeo and Juliet... and Fate

Romeo  and  Juliet are described as “star-cross’d lovers” in the Prologue of Shakespeare’s play Romeo  and  Juliet (1595), implying that the tragic end of their love was fated.  Analyse this view with close attention to the role of fate in the tragedy.                                                                                                        


By definition, star-crossed lovers means those whose relationship is doomed by evil and bad luck. The prologue of Romeo and Juliet tells the readers to anticipate a tragedy in advance. The fact that too early on in the prologue the readers are warned of such anticipated tragedy also implies that tragic events will happen too early, earlier than they ideally should. In other words, the characters meet their fate too early. The prologue also projects the theme of dispute between families being the cause of the fatal tragedy that happens to the characters. That being said, the fighting between the Capulets and the Montagues is the main reason Romeo and Juliet are star-crossed lovers.

Speaking of implying that a tragedy, or tragedies may one say, might fall upon the characters, the script, at many instances, foreshadows to the characters' bloody fate and death. For instance, in act 1 when the men of the Montague and the Capulets fight in the streets after Mercutio had won the tournament, the prince warns the people that their lives will pay the price of the offense. This literally translates to the events that will happen in which Tybalt, Mercutio, Count Paris, Romeo and Juliet, will lose their lives as a result of the dispute and violence between the families.

As well, before the Capulet masquerade at their house, Romeo starts to contemplate whether there is the possibility that their decisions will lead to their demise and fate. He says that he fears some consequence yet hanging in the stars if he were to enter the Capulet’s property. As he finally decided to enter the party with Mercutio and his cousin, he already begins the journey to experience his fatal demise. Romeo's mentioning of consequences hanging in the stars synchronizes with the prologue of the play. In other words, the anticipated consequences hanging in the stars is the star-crossed lovers; himself and Juliet.

Tybalt is a character that embodies and combines violence and evil fate in one. Consider how in the party at the Capulets' house he notices that Juliet is dancing with Romeo, who he knows is a Montague. Just as Romeo sees Juliet for the first time and falls in love with her, Tybalt has his mind already set on killing Romeo to maintain the Capulet’s family honor. In other words, the moment Romeo and Juliet experienced their love at first sight, violent demise was waiting for Romeo on the other side.

From then on, the love between the characters seems to noticeably be drawing them closer to their death. Romeo and Juliet speak of attempting suicide in many scenes in the play and speak of their willingness to die in honor of their love. For example, when Romeo kills Tybalt and the prince makes the decision of putting Romeo in exile, Romeo snatches a knife in Friar Lawrence's cell and threatens to murder himself as he will be separated from his love. Just a few instances later, Juliet pulls out a knife to kill herself in the presence of Friar Lawrence as she is desperate for ways to dodge her marriage to Paris and meet Romeo after he was sent to exile. That being said, the love between them is the cause of their willingness to commit violence and accept their fate.

Another instance by which the text suggests the tragic death of the main characters is the balcony scene in act 2. Juliet is standing in her balcony after the masquerade has ended, reflecting on her feeling towards Romeo. She is concerned about the fact that it is a fatal deed to be in love with a Montague, and she refers to Romeo—as she talks to herself—as one dead in the tomb. This part of the scene suggests that Juliet also is aware of the deadly consequence hanging in the start if she were to love and marry Romeo.

In the play, the role of fate contrasts with the notion of free will. Romeo and Juliet are young and foolish and wish to be on their free will. They think they can fight the world, their state, their law, their families, and their circumstances in order to marry each other. Indeed they do act on their free will and get married the next day after their first acquaintance, but then again their free will results in their tragic demise, too early and too foolishly.

This brings attention to the idea of consequences happening too early. Consider how Juliet’s family wanted her to be married too young and too early. Consider how Tybalt finds Romeo too early and fights with him before even the news of the marriage to Juliet start to spread. Consider how Romeo rushes to see Juliet on her ‘fake’ death bed as he hears from his cousin that she had died, too early he hears from his cousin, before the letter from the priest Friar Lawrence arrives to him which was intended to explain to Romeo the whole plot of Juliet’s fake death. You see, all those accidents happening too early eventually lead to plenty of tragedies: the killing of Mercutio by Tybalt, the murdering of Tybalt by Romeo as revenge, the receiving of the false news that Juliet has died, and the consumption of the venom by Romeo as he believes that Juliet has truly died, and lastly the suicide of Juliet as she wakes up from her ‘fake’ death and sees that Romeo has died as a result of the whole plotted death. All the consequences that happened to early dictated the fate of the characters and the star-crossed lovers.

In the light of the idea of time and things happening earlier than expected, it is fascinating to see how little time Romeo and Juliet actually get to spend together. It is understood that there is an overpowering source of passion, love, ecstasy, and desire between the young couple. Because of such overpowering feelings that they have, they rush into defying their families and norms and get married too quickly. Juliet herself, early on in the story, starts to wonder whether their love is too rash, too unadvised and too sudden, but still, she proceeds to talk to herself wishing that Romeo could deny his father and deny his name as a Montague, or if not, then she may no longer be a Capulet just to marry him, if that is what it takes. The decisions and thoughts that Romeo and Juliet are having at this point in the story are too significant and too life-changing, yet the irony is that after all that, they only get to spend very little time together before they meet their fate.

Defying fate and denying succumbing to it is a notion embodied in Romeo. When the young lover hears of Juliet’s ‘fake’ death, he is filled with anger and sorrow to the extent of promising to defy the stars. Romeo literally says I defy you, stars, which tells the readers that he is willing to fight the universe only to be with Juliet. As the events unfold, Romeo indeed defies the starts in the sense that he refuses to be separated from Juliet, and therefore he kills himself with poison just to lie and die next to her. The tragedy is that Romeo’s defying of fate eventually leads to Juliet’s actual death. Keeping in mind the theme of star-crossed lovers, the stars which Romeo dares to defy could be symbolic of bad luck. In other words, Romeo says I defy you, bad luck. Romeo’s attempt in defying bad luck leads to worse and more tragic bad luck.

The notion of fate wraps around all of the events in the story: the dispute between their families, which is fated from the start, as the prologue says, and which the readers, as well as the characters, have to accept and live with, the tragic number of accidents that ruin Friar Lawrence's purely well-intentioned plans to make Romeo and Juliet merrily married; and the tragic timing of Romeo's suicide at the same time of Juliet's awakening. These accidents are not mere coincidences, but rather signs of fate that contribute to the young couple’s destined deaths.